IF FRIENDSHIP WAS A SIN, WOULD I PARTAKE IN IT?
It is said that friendship is a fundamental aspect of human life, and it is considered one of the most valuable relationships we can have. It is often said that friends are the family we choose for ourselves. However, if friendship was considered a sin, would we still partake in it?
We can’t talk about this prompt without knowing what sin is all about.
Sin, generally, is seen as an offense against God, and in the Bible, according to 1 John 3:4(NLT version), “Everyone who sins is breaking God’s law, for all sin is contrary to the law of God.” Also, in Deuteronomy 9:7 and Joshua 1:18, sin is regarded as a rebellion against God. The Catholic Church defines sin as an offense against reason, truth, and right conscience. Lastly, the Merriam-Webster dictionary describes sin as an offense against religious or moral law. It is also an avoidable act that harms one’s soul. So, in this case, if friendship were considered a sin, it would be regarded as morally wrong or against the teachings of a particular religion.
Now the question is, “If friendship was a sin, would you partake in it?” technically, when asked a religiously inclined person this question, the first reply the person will give will be negative because it is an offense against God.
I conducted a survey on this, and out of 100%, 67% gave a negative reply to the question despite knowing the benefits of this said relationship and their reason is that why do something that God tells us not to do.
Friendship is one of the most celebrated bonds throughout history as the most beautiful aspect of human connection that brings joy, Comfort, and support. It is the only relationship apart from marriage that transcends time, culture, and boundaries. And now we are asked to consider this beautiful relationship as a sin.
If this relationship were a sin, people would likely be discouraged from forming close bonds with people. The fear of receiving punishment from religious leaders and offending God could prevent people or individuals from seeking any meaningful relationship or connection with others. Thereby making one experience isolation and loneliness, which would harm their mental health, and that is not what friendship is all about.
Friendship is a deep and exquisite bond that entails mutual affection, trust, shared experiences, and unwavering support. It is a partnership that brings laughter, brightens our days, offers comfort when things become challenging, and provides a sense of significance and purpose. It is a bond beyond simple acquaintanceship and frequently develops into a family where emotional refuge is found.
Also, the lack of friendship could primarily affect society. This is so because close relationships with others are essential for personal growth, emotional stability, and social cohesion. Without these, society might fall apart, resulting in serious problems associated with distrust, conflict, and prejudice.
True friendships are built on honesty, respect, and an unspoken understanding. They bring about a sense of belonging, personal development, and acceptance of who we are. Friends provide a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen to as they support us through good times and bad. They prevent isolation and loneliness and give one a chance to offer needed companionship, improving self-confidence and self-worth. A meaningful and fulfilling life is fundamentally dependent on this connection.
On the other hand, some people might still choose to partake in friendship despite being considered a sin, just like the 17% of those who gladly gave a positive answer to the survey I conducted. In this situation, it would require great courage to stand by our companions. If those who choose to partake in the relationship, despite it being a sin, are atheists, then they would have to defy societal norms and expectations, much like those who challenge unjust rules and regulations, but if they are not, this prohibited relationship (friendship) might make one feel guilty or ashamed. This could lead to a significant internal conflict, causing individuals to question their faith and morals. Some might even go as far as to abandon their faith altogether. Common consequences that both parties will experience include social isolation, discrimination, or even legal repercussions.
Friendship would have severe repercussions for both people and society at large if it were a sin. Lack of essential connections may result in poor mental health and other serious societal problems. Ultimately, it is up to each individual to decide whether they would partake in friendship if it were considered a sin. However, it is evident that the advantages of friendship far outweigh any possible adverse effect of disobeying social or religious norms.
Friendship is an integral part of human experience and far from being a sin. Instead, it is a priceless gift that makes our lives better. Though it is entirely speculative, the thought of friendship being condemned as immoral is a poignant reminder of the vital significance of these relationships. Genuine friends never waver and provide unfailing love and support, even amid hardship. Hence, the importance of friendship in the human experience should be praised, not denigrated.
Many wonder what the remaining 16% of those who participated in my survey chose. Well, the remaining 16% were indecisive. Therefore, I ask this question again: if friendship was a sin, would you partake in it?
Below are some sites that helped in the writing of this;
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sin
http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p3s1c1a8.htm#:~:text=1849%20Sin%20is%20an%20offense,121
https://vsworshiper7.wixsite.com/godwordmyvoice/amp/the-true-essence-of-friendship-8-empowering-qualities-of-a-friend
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860#:~:text=Friends%20can%20help%20you%20celebrate,sense%20of%20belonging%20and%20purpose
